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Breaking into Cybersecurity Leadership with Larry Whiteside Jr

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Transcript
Christophe Foulon:

Welcome to another episode of Breaking Into

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Cybersecurity, where we develop the next

generation of cybersecurity leaders.

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Today's guest is Larry Whiteside, but

before he starts, please make sure

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that you share this episode with others

as that is the goal of generating

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the next generation of leaders.

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And for that, we need to share the

message with everyone that's interested

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in becoming a cybersecurity leader.

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Larry, tell us a little

bit about your background.

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah,

so first I'll start.

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Thank I wanna thank you for

the opportunity to sit here

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and have this conversation.

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Second, to the last statement

you said about sharing, I'm a

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huge proponent for community.

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We as

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practitioners and people who ha,

who share faith and share the.

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Knowing desire that this community

needs to be more diverse.

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We have to create and get into communities

of other people who think like us and

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are willing to work down this path.

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So thank you for doing that.

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Now, little about me, which isn't

the most important part of what

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we're gonna talk about today.

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I, Larry Whitehead, Jr.

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I've been in this

industry almost 30 years.

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I'm a former Air Force officer

around information warfare at the

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Pentagon just before getting out

for the last few years before I got

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into private sector in early 2002.

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And since then I've been an executive

cyber leader in a number of different

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comp companies around the globe.

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It's been fun.

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I've had large, very large and small, very

small teams in many different industries.

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A lot of healthcare, some

financial services, some

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energy, oil and gas type stuff.

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And so I've done the consulting side.

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I've done a little bit of everything

in this timeframe which then also

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means I've seen and experienced a lot.

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And this aspect of diversity

for me is a passion.

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Some friends of mine, other cyber leaders.

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And I we co-founded an organization

that was called I-S-C-M-C-P.

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I'm gonna give you the old tongue twister

name, international Consortium of Minority

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Cybersecurity Professionals that we

then properly decided to rename cyber.

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And I like to say the name came from

cybersecurity and diversity, having a

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baby, and, the real mission of diversity

is really to really to get butts in

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seats and really change the dynamics

of the industry to get more di make the

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industry of diversity more diverse, right?

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And specifically targeting right,

underserved communities, LGBTQ plus

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bipo, people of color and the like.

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Christophe Foulon: And that's

definitely an important mission.

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And as, as you've grown along

the way, what are some of the.

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Interesting or probably obvious things

that a company, a team would gain

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from adding diversity to their team.

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah, so I,

I use the word lens a lot and

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I'll explain what that means.

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Every.

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Person on the planet has some

form of a unique vision, right?

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So you can't go to the eye doctor and

get a pair of glasses, a prescription

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for you, and then share them with your

wife or with your children, right?

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And your children are

your children, right?

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They're, you're born from the

same lineages of you, but.

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Even with that, they don't

necessarily see through the same lens.

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That's what I tell people to think

about when they think about diversity.

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We have unfortunately gone down the

path when we talk about diversity of

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always going directly to race and skin

color, and yes, that's a component of

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it, but that's not it in its entirety.

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The purpose for diversity

in cybersecurity is because.

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A, the problem is growing faster

than we can throw things at it.

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So with that, we need to have as

many people in the room with as

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many lenses as possible, thinking of

different ways to solve the problem.

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That's how we attack the problem faster

and better, is by having more ideas of how

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to solve it, and then coming to some level

of understanding of which one of those is

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best that we can then move forward with.

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If you have a room full of people

who all think alike, have a similar

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lens, they're not gonna have the same

lens, but have a similar lens who

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have gone to similar schools, who come

from similar backgrounds, they're all

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going to see things through a common

lens, and you're gonna have what you

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call group think that ends up being

how you attack problem solving well.

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That gives you this very narrow and

myopic view of problem solving in

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your organization, and you tend to

then always be behind the curve.

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And so our goal with diversity is really

to get broader sets of problems brought

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to the table, broader sets of ways to

solve problems brought to the table so

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you can think more broadly about how to

solve said problems that you're facing.

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Christophe Foulon: and you more

specifically, why did you decide to become

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a cybersecurity leader versus staying an

individual contributor in your career?

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah so me being a

leader is just I'm gonna go with and I

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put it out there and everybody who knows

me knows I wear my faith on my sleeve.

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I think that's what God built me to be.

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I was a in the military, right when

you go in, I went in as an officer.

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Going as an in, as an officer, you are

automatically thrust into leadership and.

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Being a junior officer, you have

this balance between individual

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contributor and leadership.

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And so at the base level, you're,

you're a leader, but you're

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also an individual contributor.

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In some ways, I found myself

gravitating more towards being a leader.

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Not that I don't like doing

things, but I like leading people

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and I like being someone who.

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At a granular level, and I

love, I'm a community person.

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I'm big on people leadership,

I'm big on teaching.

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And so I've got eight children, right?

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And two stepchildren an adopted daughter

and five biological children from

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my ex-wife that I'm just about that.

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And so for me.

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When I came out of the military I don't

even think it was a question for me of

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whether I was going to be an individual

contributor or gonna a leadership

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role because I like building teams.

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I like watching other people succeed.

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I like watching people go and then learn

from me to then go build themselves.

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And throughout my career, I've had

opportunities where I've been individual

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contributors been an individual

contributor and even as a ciso I've gone

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into some places that there was nothing.

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They hired me as a ciso and I was

an individual contributor as I

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began building, and then I had to

start hiring and building a team.

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I've just always felt that leadership

was more my calling, right?

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Me being able to lead and influence

others in a direction to do

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something that I think is pivotal.

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Christophe Foulon: And as you think

about leadership, what do you think

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the critical skills for leadership are?

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah,

so really good question.

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Honestly, first one is

listen more than you speak.

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A lot of leaders think that.

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Leading is about telling people what to

do and it's not about telling people what

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to do, it's about listening to others,

understanding who each person is as

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an individual, and then being able to

guide them based on certain principles

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that you have as a leader, right?

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Every leader's got their set of

books or things that guide them,

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principles, whatever that may be.

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But a lot of them tend to

talk more than they listen.

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I say God gave us two ears

and one mouth for a reason.

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And so with that, great leaders

have a great ability to listen to

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people around them and take that.

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And whether it's taking

feedback or just taking input.

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From them based on who they are,

what they want to be how they operate

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well, and being able to transition

and turn that into helping them be

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the best person that they can be.

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Christophe Foulon: Wow

that's definitely true.

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I've been hearing that phrase

more and more two ears in one

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mouth, and it's definitely true.

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Let's dive into some of the common

competencies that I've seen over and over.

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I.

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And see your thoughts on them.

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With a scale of one to five, how do you

rate your comfort level with delegation,

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and why is it such a critical skill?

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah, so

I'm, I'll tell you where I was.

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I used to be 10 years ago, 10 years ago,

I had the mindset that nobody's gonna do

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it better than me, so I'll just do it.

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I would just do it.

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I would tell, my leaders, Hey, here's

some of the things I need, and then

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I would go create the presentation.

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I would tell the leaders,

Hey, I need these things.

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And then I would go do some of the

things that I could have delegated.

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Delegating is difficult.

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Right now I'm at a five, or I'll say

I'll, I'm at a four because I don't

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think there's such as perfection.

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I'm at a, I realize delegation.

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A lot to delegation is you being

comfortable with yourself, right?

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Because it has zero to do with the

other people most of the time that you

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don't trust them because if you didn't

trust them, you wouldn't hire them.

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They wouldn't be in the roles they're in.

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It's that you feel more

comfortable getting it done

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yourself versus teaching them.

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And I learned that through my career that

the day I step into a role is the day

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that I need to be succession planning.

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So when I accept my role as an executive

in whatever organization, right?

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I need to be thinking about

what's my succession plan?

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Who am I building up to

be able to take my role?

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I should not be creating my role

in a way that it is one that I,

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if I go away, it can't be done.

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But a lot of us felt have over the

years, felt job security in doing that.

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And.

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It sometimes can turn around

and bite you in the butt.

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I thank God it never bitten me, but

I've seen others where it has and

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through a lot of reading, through

a lot of self-reflection I came

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to the point of recognizing my own

flaws and my ability to delegate.

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So I think it's crucially important.

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To understand that, and if you are

not someone who likes to delegate, you

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need to identify why, because it's a

critical part, because it builds trust

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with your team, and it also helps them

build the capability and the muscles

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that they need to really do their

jobs better and understand yours.

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Christophe Foulon: And

while not dissimilar, let's

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talk about collaboration.

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How do you rate yourself on the

scale of one to five, and why

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is it such a ? Critical skill.

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah

so collaboration is huge.

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I'm a five on collaboration simply

for the fact that I like everybody

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bringing to the table, where I talked

about community in the beginning,

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I'm a huge community person.

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I'm a huge person about ensuring that

everybody's coming to the table so that.

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We don't get down a path and

then somebody's raising a hand

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feeling like that they did

not, they weren't a part of it.

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And this really goes to the

crux of cybersecurity, right?

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We were in a bubble for a long time.

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And if you were in a organization

that was developing things development

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was off doing their own thing.

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And then after the fact, we got to

watch and we were raising our hand like,

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Hey, We were never part of that, right?

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CISOs never being brought

to the board, right?

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In my early days, it was a long

time before I got the board right,

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but the business going down this

path, you're like, Hey, why wasn't

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I part of that conversation?

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And.

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For me, I, the reason I know how important

Collaborat collaboration is because I've

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been on the other side of not being part

of it, and so I recognize the value of

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it and how if everybody doesn't feel

like they have a voice and are part of

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helping make the decision of whether

you're gonna turn right or turn left as

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you go down this road, the impact to both

the project or initiative as well as the

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impact on the individual who's being left.

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Christophe Foulon: And while we di dived

into a component of this, how do you rate

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yourself for the skill of communication

and why is it such a critical skill?

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah, communication.

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Some people say I'm a

little too talkative.

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but I'm big on communication.

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I will say timeliness is

sometimes a thing but just the

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overall aspect of communication.

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People will tell you all the time I

say this, I love to run my mouth, so

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I don't have a problem communicating.

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I.

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But I think communication is critical

because that's how you keep both

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your team and your leadership

informed of what you are doing,

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what's going on, what's happening.

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If you don't communicate and you sit

again in our bubble of cybersecurity,

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which happens from time to time.

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You tend to be left out of other things,

and I think that communication, proper

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communication ensures that you are

part of the other conversations, right?

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So I'll give you an example If as

a cyber leader you are not doing

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regular touch bases with your peers

across your organization, right?

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You then don't get read into

the other things that they are

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doing, the other things that they

are getting pulled into, right?

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Inside of your organization is by having

regular conversations with your peers,

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those conversations you have with your

peers, when you begin to dissect things,

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share with them what you are doing,

and ask them and listen to the things

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that they're doing, you'll start to see

some synergy across that, and they'll

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start to understand, here are some

areas that I need to bring security in.

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So for me, communication is huge.

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Christophe Foulon: Now an interesting one.

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Why would you consider influence such

a critical skill for cybersecurity?

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah honestly,

this one is simple for me.

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Influence and security is so

important because you're asking

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people to do things hard, right?

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Security is the one thing

across a business ecosystem

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that can slow everything down.

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And for organizations, right?

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Whether it's tech, whether it's,

certain business units or whatever,

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they want to move quickly.

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They want to move.

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So security, because security has yet to

learn to move at the speed of business.

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When we get pulled in or when we

in inject ourselves or integrate

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ourselves, we tend to slow things

down because for the most part.

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Most cyber leaders are not at the

beginning of the conversation.

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They get brought in some phase later

and they become a checkbox that must

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be checked before something moves on.

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And because they weren't integrated

from the beginning, now this is a

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blocker, this is a stopping point.

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This is a right.

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So you have to be an influencer there.

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But then even if you are brought in at

the beginning of the conversation, you're

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going to make things more difficult.

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You're gonna make things more costly.

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You, again, you're going to make things

move at a pace slower than anticipated

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to get to the end goal, and you have

to help them understand the risk

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that you're helping mitigate, right?

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Assert along that path of whatever that

path is that they're going down towards

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whatever that particular business unit is.

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So with that, being able to influence

decisions, being able to help

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people understand and being able

to communicate in the language of

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the person you're across the table

from becomes ever more critical.

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Christophe Foulon: Now, I know

you're really good at this one.

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But how would you consider

networking with people as a critical

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skill for cybersecurity and why?

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah so that

one again I think I'm a five.

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And I think I'm a five in this one.

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I tell people this all the time.

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I've learned more from the community

that I engage with, the people that

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I network with, the people that I

talk to on a regular basis, more than

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any training I've ever taken, right?

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Because yes, training is going

to get me some aspect of.

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Knowledge related to a specific

technical discipline or thing, but my.

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Get me knowledgeable about things

that I probably wouldn't have

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otherwise known about until it

impacted me directly, impacted my

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organization, directly impacted

one of my staffers directly, right?

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Those types of things.

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So learning from the community is

only happens if you engage in network.

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And so for me, that's a huge

part of my world is continuing

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to have conversations with.

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Pretty much everyone on a pretty regular

basis about things that are happening,

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asking questions, seeking to understand.

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It's, the whole aspect of seeking

to understand is a lost art.

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So many people go in with an agenda

when they want to, when they want

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to know something or when they start

a dialogue about something versus

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seeking to understand, because I've

got people who I've got opposing views

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with, who I'm great friends with.

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And we never argue about it.

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We never right?

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We are, even though we may be on

polar opposites as it relates to

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certain topics, because my goal is

always to seek to understand why

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they feel, think or believe that way.

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It's not in a way that I then

utilize against them to tear it down.

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I just wanna know, and for me it's about,

it's that knowledge that I gain when

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networking and communicating with people.

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And in the cyber industry it's

even more so because, information

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sharing is such a challenge in cyber.

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We've talked about information sharing.

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There have been tons and tons of

tools that have been developed to try

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and facilitate information sharing.

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Private to public to private

company to company and all

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this, and we can't get it right.

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We just, we continue to hit

these barriers of, legal and

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regulatory and blah, blah, blah.

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All these things that

have stopped us, right?

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Guess what?

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It can happen person to person.

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I've gotten more private CISO groups

either in Slack or in Signal or

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WhatsApp or whatever, where we are

sharing things that we're dealing with.

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In our organizations or as a leader

or with staff or with something that

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I hear from other people, I'm like,

oh, I've never dealt with that.

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Or they're coming up with something

that I've dealt with before where I

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can say, oh yes, I dealt with that.

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This is how I did it.

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This is what we did.

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This is what happened.

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Here were the outcomes.

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So for me, that is absolutely

critical and probably one of the most

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fun things I get to do every day.

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Christophe Foulon: What advice would you

give to future cybersecurity leaders?

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I.

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah.

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Find your community, find build it,

be open and listen more than you talk.

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And I, let me start this way.

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I'm gonna start with,

listen more than you talk.

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A lot of people reach a certain

pedestal, so to speak and feel that,

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okay, I've now achieved something.

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Everybody listen to me.

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And the reality is, the higher

you climb in your career,

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the more you need to listen.

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Because.

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There are new techniques, there

are new threats, there are new,

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everything coming out on a daily basis.

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The people who are really seeing,

understanding and getting to

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know what the hell that is are

the people on the front lines.

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That is these, the people in their

one to seven years right, of cyber

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and tech are dealing with all the new

things that, I call myself a dinosaur

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at this stage, but that we we fathom.

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We started in this industry.

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And so with that, it's important

for us to listen, right?

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Listen to a lot of the things coming

from all of these other areas versus

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just talking about how great we

are or talking about all the things

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we're doing or talking about, right?

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It's that listening and

then engaging, right?

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As you listen, find the things

that you are passionate about

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that align to you and engage.

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But then the other thing

is just be genuine.

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People are gonna be able to read If you

aren't who you portray yourself to be.

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If you get online and you try and paint

a certain picture about yourself, the

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moment someone meets you, they're gonna be

able to tell if that's truly you or not.

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And you look at a lot of celebrities

that, that portray a certain image

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and then they get out in the real

world and they get met and they are

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this, completely walled off person

that doesn't wanna, they're like, oh.

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I thought this person, and so that,

that would happen in our industry.

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And there are many people who have

been put up on the wall of sheep

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or charlatans out at Black Hat.

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Just be genuine, right?

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Both online and in person and

be who you are and it's okay.

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If you're a curmudgeon, own it.

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I know a couple of people who are

curmudgeons and I love them dearly.

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And I call them that to their face.

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I don't just say it behind their back.

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I call them that to their

face on a regular basis.

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And I still love them and I dialogue

with them all the time, right?

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But I know who they are.

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And so for me, I appreciate it

because who they are is who they

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are and they don't try and hide it.

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They don't try and sugarcoat it.

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Don't try gloss.

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That's who appreciate.

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Christophe Foulon: I'd say.

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Jeff Mann and Jack Daniels

are two well-known Curmudgeons

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Larry Whiteside Jr: add Ira Wink Winkler

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Yes.

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Yes, that's true.

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IRA's a good friend of mine.

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He's

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another one.

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Christophe Foulon: Perfect.

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One more topic since I know this

is what you're passionate about.

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Let's talk a little bit more

about diversity, inclusion and

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equity and kind of dive into what

each of those mean and how we can

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enable those in the organization.

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah so

diversity is pretty simple.

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We talked about that in the beginning, is.

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Being able to find a way to bring people

into your organization that, that see

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through different lenses than you.

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So diversity is not just about skin

color, but I'll start with saying

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diversity is not just a number.

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It's not just about a

achieving a percentage.

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Oh, I've got a certain number of

underrepresented communities and

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women in, in our organization.

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No.

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So diversity is about

finding those people.

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D.

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Without equity and

inclusion, then you failed.

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Because equity is about making

them feel, and equity and

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inclusion, I think go together.

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Where equity is are they being

paid on scale with their peers?

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You can't bring this diverse talent

in, but keep them at a 20% lower clip.

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Others in similar roles, right?

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So that's one, that's the equity pieces.

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Making sure that these backend components

of how we create these roles tier

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these roles and pay these roles, that

is equitable across the organization

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and across these roles as well.

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But this inclusion piece is huge because.

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If you say, okay, 30% of

my organization is diverse.

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Great.

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And this could be diversity of thought,

diversity of background diversity, right?

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30%.

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All right, great.

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But now are they included?

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Are they do, are they being made

to feel like the ideas they come up

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with are being actually considered?

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Are they being invited to the meetings?

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Are they having, are they being

put in places where they feel

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safe enough to openly share?

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Because I've seen situations, or I should

say, I've been told about situations from

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diverse people where yes, they were hired

to fit all the diversity check boxes.

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Got into an organization and they

basically felt like they were put in

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the office in the Broom closet office.

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The guy on the movie, the office.

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Where, he was down there, there

was a mop and a bucket in there.

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And that's like that's what

they felt like they were, or

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they got invited to the meeting.

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But anytime they spoke

up, they got talked over.

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No idea that they ever gave was

actually ever validly discussed.

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So this whole component of inclusion

is wildly important because and

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unfortunate reality today is women

are leaving the cybersecurity industry

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faster than any other demographic.

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And it's because there's a huge

lack of inclusion on the operational

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side of cybersecurity, right?

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In sales, women are growing in

sales, so sales and cybersecurity is

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growing, but on the operational side.

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Of cybersecurity, the practitioner

side, women are leaving in droves.

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And it's because there's lack of

inclusion that they're, that they

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feel they're being given as it relates

to their ideas and their thoughts.

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And so with that.

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That piece right there.

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You can be as diverse as you

wanna be, but if you fall into

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group, think where you've got 30%.

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So there are 10, 10 people in the

room and three of them are diverse,

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but those three are feel made to feel

small and their ideas are not never

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heard, and they never feel like they

are part of the conversation because

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the other seven, talk over them, talk

around them, talk through them, right?

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The leader of that

organization is failing them.

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Whoever that executive

leader is failing me.

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I've been in these situations where

I have had to shut people up and

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shut people down and say, Hey,

such and such just had an idea.

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Say that again.

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Let's talk about that.

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Let's dig into that a little

bit because here's the reality.

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It's not that diverse.

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People feel that their ideas should

be the one that's the best one.

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If they make a statement

or come up with an idea.

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You walk through it and either

validate it or devalidate it against

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everything else, then they at

least feel like they were heard.

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But to not hear it at all, not go through

the steps of validating or invalidating it

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versus all the other ones, is where most

organizations fall and they, fail, and

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they fail regularly, and it's really sad.

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Christophe Foulon: And

just to end the . Doubt.

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Do you wanna tell people

what your shirt means?

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Larry Whiteside Jr: Yeah so for hunger

hunger in our country is a problem, right?

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We're one of the richest

nations in the world.

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And our company reg scale I'm

very fortunate that we've got

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great great leadership team at

Reg Scale and during our CKO.

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This year we did it in DC and we went

and volunteered at a food shelter in

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the DC area and we packaged foods and

packaged goods for the DC's community

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that they basically take out to schools.

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They take out to, homeless

shelters and the like.

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And so it was a great day

of community service for us.

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But it also, reminded me of the

narrative that there are so many people

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in the United States that go hungry.

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I lived in a community in Michigan

where it could be Sub-Zero

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temperature, and two feet of snow.

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And they would not close schools

because such a large percentage of the

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students and schools, that was the only

meal that they were having each day.

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So fork hunger is a statement

by an organization out dc it's.

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As specifically, and so I bought this.

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I wear this shirt a lot just because

I think it makes a statement.

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It's funny, but it's actually talking

about a real problem and not that,

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hunger is a huge mission of mine on

top of diversity and everything else,

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but I'm just a humanitarian and I

truly believe I am, I'm a believer in

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people and I'm always trying to find

a way to utilize whatever platform I

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have to send a message that there are.

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To be better humans.

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Humans.

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And so find something, find anything.

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To, to just, because at the end of

the day, I can tell you and my kids

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can tell you, we do something as

simple as make homeless bags, right?

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And we buy dollar goods, put

them into little paper bags,

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and we keep them in the car.

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And when we are driving and we

come to a stoplight and there's

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somebody, with a sign or whatever,

we'll give them homeless bags and

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it's got, some non-perishable foods.

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It's got some things that will allow

them to clean themselves and soap and

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toothbrush and little things, but.

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The joy that my nine and 11 year old,

the bottom of my kids the last two in the

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house that they get out of that is, is

worth all the money in the world, right?

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And so if you find something, find

whatever your thing is, do something.

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It really takes.

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Each individual saying, I'm going to

step up to do something rather than

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just be in my own world because we are

all citizens of this world together.

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And so I think everybody and even

with this aspect of DI diversity,

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I say this statement a lot and

it's interesting how many people

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hadn't thought of it until I say it.

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There's not been a single.

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Made in the history of the

world that happened when it

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was only the impacted community

standing up to complain about it.

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Women's rights, right?

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Affirmative action, right?

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There's nothing if you think about that.

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So find whatever your thing is and

if you think it's an injustice, if

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you think it's wrong, stand up and be

part of helping to make that change.

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Christophe Foulon: And I would say

just on find that thing and work

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on it, that's a transferable skill.

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That applies everywhere.

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Work home, where wherever you

are, it applies everywhere.

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So o

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that, thank you Larry for joining us.

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And everyone, thank you for sharing

with all the future cybersecurity

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leaders out there, and let's make

a positive impact on this world.

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Christophe Foulon

It’s a conversation about what you did before, why did you pivot into cyber, what the process you went through Breaking Into Cybersecurity, how you keep up, and advice/tips/tricks along the way. You can also bring up topics like attraction/retention/developing the next generation of the workforce.

Cybersecurity Leaders, we would love to help develop the next generation of cybersecurity leadership. We will do us on the critical skills and competencies of leadership, and you can also bring up topics like attraction, retention, and developing the next generation of the workforce.

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